Judge Judy had never heard of Grindr, which gave the defendant the enviable opportunity to explain it to the chuckling courtroom. After explaining it was an app for meeting other homosexual men, he asserted he used it for making friends.
Grindr, in its unfiltered GPS-based glory hole , presents a wide spectrum of gay culture. There is every shape, size, color, and age represented within its Cartesian geo-limits. While pre-Grindr, meeting gay men required a trip to the local gay bar, technology has allowed us to come together no pun intended and — as Judge Judy stated — expand our horizons and understanding of one another. I have been on and off the application almost since its demonic yellow head was first birthed five years ago.
I think I am like most in that I will use it for a few weeks, then get fed up and delete it for several months, at which point boredom and lack of dates will necessitate its return. Ostensibly embarrassed about their virtual activities, they were surreptitiously taking photos, arm outstretched holding a bulky digital camera in prehistoric selfies.
In the modern gay selfie, the phone is almost always showing in the mirror. This a decent way to judge compatibility — as a long time iPhone user, I would never date someone with a Galaxy or Droid.
Men are naturally impulsive in their sexual desires, and two men together makes for a surplus of testosterone. The honest ones advertise this information in their profile, but then there are men looking to play on the sly. Zombie noun Zombies are lifeless people that wander back into your life via a random text or message to hook up. When someone ghosts you, they should be out of your life. Backslide verb When you get back together with your ex. Generally a negative term for a bad move since the relationship ended on a bad break up.
DTR question Define the relationship. Textual Relationship noun phrase Smartphones make it easier to meet new people who would have never crossed your path. But it can also be a roadblock. When you start messaging someone and grow attached to them via texting or sending messages to each other you might be in a Textual Relationship, not a real one.
But you never meet up. BAE noun No, not babe. It allows both people to gauge whether a date is worth it. As in asking your cute co-worker to hang out at a coffee shop.
Catch and Release adjective The term for someone who dates for the thrill of the chase rather than seeking a relationship. Slay verb The dictionary definition of slay is to kill something in a violent manner. The dating definition of slay is the act of getting a lot of dates and a lot of action.
As in she slays a lot of guys or he slays all day. NSA No strings attached. FWB Friends with benefits. Same as a NSA relationship except you know each other, hang out and could occasionally go out to brunch the next morning....